Elly, Michael, David, Tawra and BJ


Friday, May 09, 2008

Newsletter 5-8

Today's Tips:

If you burn yourself on a regular basis while cooking, keep a bottle of aloe or burn ointment in the kitchen. If you have limited space in your bathroom, think about keeping your first aid supplies in the kitchen (Things like band aids, ointments, tweezers etc.). Most of the time when someone gets hurt mom is in the kitchen or some place other than the bathroom, so it is handier to have first aid supplies close.

Note: Be sure that you keep medications where they won't fall in the sink if you knock them over.

Anyone who works in an office knows the best way to get a good start on the next day is to leave your desk clear that evening before you go home. The same goes at home. If you want a good start to your day, make sure your kitchen sink is empty, the counters are clear and the table is cleared off and wiped.


Today's Menu:

Poor Man's Chicken Fried Steak*
Baked Potato
Cottage Cheese Salad*
Relish Dish w/ green onions, radishes carrots and
celery sticks
Texas Toast


Poor Man's Chicken Fried Steak

1 lb. hamburger (You can use pre-made patties.)
1/4 cup milk, placed in a shallow bowl
1/4 - 1/2 cup flour, placed on a plate
1 egg, whipped with fork and place in shallow bowl
1/2 -3/4 of a tube of crackers, crushed, place on plate

Form hamburger into 5-6 patties. Dip each patty into milk, flour, egg and last of all crackers. Place in a hot frying pan with a little oil. Season with salt, pepper, onion and garlic powder. Turn down heat and fry on one side then flip to other side. Hamburger is done when the juices run clear.



Cottage Cheese Salad

2 cups cottage cheese
1/4 to 1/2 cup each of the following:
green pepper, chopped
onion, chopped
tomato, chopped
chives or parsley, optional
Salt and pepper to taste.

Mix all ingredients and chill.

Reader Tips and Question

Tawra,
Just wanted to share our grocery savings we stumbled across. We have a Shop-n-Save chain that does a $10.00 off a $50.00 purchase about every other week. They also happen to be running a special gift card promotion that coincides with the tax rebates where you buy a $100 gift card and they add an extra $10.00 to it. We took advantage of both of these promotions using our credit card to make the purchase, which gives us 5% back on grocery and gasoline purchases.

Shari

Tawra another thing that is wonderful for burns is pure essential oil of lavender too.. Cherie

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Great site, Please write an article about how much
money iced-tea drinkers can save if they make
their own iced tea from loose tea leaves or plain
instant tea. The cost of bottles of Snapple and
other teas is shocking. Green tea, sun tea,
flavored teas are so easy to make and keep in the
fridge. I save the glass ice-tea bottles that I
buy and wash them to refill with home-made tea.
All you need to take advantage of the lower cost
of loose tea leaves is a small fine-mesh strainer
and a dollar store plastic funnel. Also compare
the price of loose tea to tea bags. Tea bags are
no bargain when you do the math! Jewels

Note from Tawra: This is how we make our tea and we just LOVE it! I buy it at a local spice, tea and coffee shop in Wichita called the Spice Merchant.


Name: Kim Woodcock
Tawra,

I have a question--the nearest Aldi's location is
100 miles round trip for me. At the cost of gas
that would be about $30. Am I going to save more
than that by making the trip??

Since there isn't a store close, I have no idea
what kind of savings I would be expecting. I
could make the trip--but wouldn't want to do so
unless I knew that I would be able to make it
worth my while.

Let me know what you think.

Kim

I think it would be worth it for a stock up trip once a month. The savings are very high. I would say try it once, take a notebook and see what the prices are like at your Aldis. If you don't find the savings to be that high you will at least save the amount of gas money you spent to drive there.
BTW, I have compared and I can find store brands or items on sale for about the same price as Aldis. You just have to be more careful about how and when you shop. Tawra

Thursday, May 08, 2008

How do you do it all?

I don't want to mis-lead people. People seem to be under the impression that I "manage it all". Well, it's just not true. More days than not I feel worse than I look below and most days I wish a Mach (sp) truck would just take me out and get it over with. :-)

If it wasn't for my wonderful husband keeping up with the dishes and vacuuming and my mom taking the kids for me a few hours every week or two I would not still be standing (sort of).

Mike said "at least I was vertical in this picture, even if it was for a few minutes." LOL
So for those of you with chronic illness wondering how do I keep "doing it all". I don't. When I feel good I work fast and furious (about 10% of the time) for the times when I don't I can just crash. :-)
Tawra

Tawra on a 'Not so good CFS/FM day"

Dinner for $3.

Everyone asks how we spend so little on groceries. Here is how I do it. I buy almost nothing unless it's on sale, clearance or at Aldis.

I went to the store the other and found a GREAT deal. They had whole milk on clearance for .80 a half gallon. They hardly ever have whole milk on clearance so I bought everything that I could fit into my freezer. (don't e-mail me about how bad whole milk is for you. We happen to like it and did buy only 2% or less until the kids got hooked on whole at school.)



Then I went down a few more isles and found hamburger marked down to .75-.99/lb. so I grabbed all they had and hoped I had room in the freezer to stuff it in also! :-) (Don't worry, some of it I'm going to share with mom and SIL)


I then found some bakery hamburger rolls on clearance for .89.

So that night for dinner we had hamburgers (.99) with fancy buns(.89), asparagus (free from neighbor), baked beans (.39), green beans (.39)and cole slaw. (.69)



We had enough leftover that it cost us just under $3 to feed all five of us hamburgers for dinner and lunch the next day for $1-$2!

All it takes is some creativity. We have people whine all the time about how they just can't do it but you have to use what you have available to you. If your store doesn't have clearance items then use coupons, if you have a garden then use it to it's highest potential, if your farmer's markets are good deals then go there and if you live in Manhattan then realize that the fact that you don't need a car helps pay for your higher groceries. The point is you have to use what you can and make the most available to you.

Tawra

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Bunch of reader tips.

Thanks for sharing guys! Tawra


Hi Tawra,

I thought I would send along another idea that
is fun for kids. Making homemade peanut
butter. It is so easy. We just put peanuts and
I add a small amount of oil (we use light olive
oil because that is what we have in our house).
Chop then blend in your blender. You can make
it as crunchy or creamy as you want. This is a
fun activity at our house and I thought you
might want to pass it along to your readers.

You might not need to add the oil but I don't
want to break my blender so I always add a
little to get it going. It is also nice because
you can use unsalted peanuts if anyone in the
house is watching sodium. I only make this in
small batches (which is fine because it is so
easy to make and so yummy fresh).

Have a good day,

Tracy


I was reading about the baked potato in the oven
and I do mine in the crockpot now. They are
almost as good as the oven and you don't heat up
the house! If you like the peel crispy just put
it in the oven for the last 10 minutes. I wash my
potatoes and wrap them in foil and throw them in
the crockpot for about 4 hrs. on low. Tracey


Hi....a good place to get menu ideas is from the school luch menu, more like dinner than lunch....
I have lil bowls, (gerber baby bowls)...that we use all the time (ice cream, desert, etc)....the kids can have that size bowl of cereal, and then if their still hungry...toast or muffin, etc.......when we have company my husband is always apologizing for the size of the plates.....(8")....we have one large "serving platter" which is what most people eat on....we also use 7 oz cups for juice and milk....I feel we eat less, (I know I do) but using smaller dishes, makes it easy to do portion control....dd


I was reading through your list of snack ideas, and some of them look fabulous, and are things I had never thought of. I have one caution for you, though. My friend is a nurse, and she pointed out that frozen grapes are NOT a safe snack, for any age. Her cousin had one get stuck in his throat (he was an adult), and they couldn't get it out, and he died. Think of what happens if you stick your tongue on a frozen flag pole.... same idea. The grape can freeze to the skin in your throat.

I really appreciate your ministry, I love your newsletters and tips, and I bought myself your cook book for Mother's Day, it's wonderful!


Thank you,

Christy

Grocery savings

Daugthers, you can't live with them and you can't live without them. Tawra (my daughter) has been telling me all week not to feel pressured into putting something on the blog everyday if I'm not feeling good. Today was the first day I decided not to post something and she calls me and says I have 10 minutes to post some words of wisdom on the blog because she said I would in the newsletter!

You moms with 3 year olds and teens think they keep you confused just wait until they get grown, it gets even worse!! :) :) :)

Actually I am kind of excited about a new audio tape I'm working on this morining. It's on saving at the grocery store (what a new and unusual subject :)). I hope to have some different things that maybe everyone hasn't thought about before. One of them is 80%-90% of your grocery savings is done before you leave home and after you get home from the store.

Another is we are just feeding our families too much. We really buy way more food then the average family needs. We aren't really paying attention to what our families eat at each meal. It's just easier to dump the cereal in the bowl, it doesn't matter that a child can get 2-3 times as much as they need. If most people just started giving their children the required serving of cereal alone, you would probably cut the amount of cereal you buy each week in half.

We really are obsessed with huge amounts of food, why do you think grocery warehouses are so popular? I can't go into it all now but one thing to watch for when shopping at these places is that if you find a monster tub of peanut butter for a great price be sure your family will be able to eat it before it goes bad other wise it was no bargain.

I have so much more I would love to tell you and not enough time or room to do it here but will try to give you another idea every once in a while. Have a super day! Jill

How NOT to Finance a Home Craft Business

How NOT to Finance a Home Craft Business

Patrice Lewis
plewis@rezmail.com
www.donlewisdesigns.com

Many people have plans to someday start their own home craft business, one that ideally would replace their outside income with income earned at home. They dream about giving up the commute. They fantasize about working at home, spending more time with their spouse and kids, and having the time to putter around the house and yard.

Usually these dreams and plans come about because the person in question is looking at the idealistic lifestyle of someone who already has an established and successful home craft business. Look at these people! Aren’t they lucky! They don’t have to drive through the snow to get to an office! All they have to do is walk across the driveway and they’re at work!

The trouble with this vision is that the wanna-be entrepreneur is only seeing a “snapshot” of the business-owner’s current success, and they assume it sprang - boing! - effortlessly into being, sort of like those nifty mushrooms that grow overnight on your lawn. No preparation, no planning, just boing.

NOT.

Rather than comparing an established home craft business to those rapid mushrooms, you should compare it to an oak tree: slow to get started, but sturdy and strong once it’s established.

This should be the pattern for your home craft business.

“Boinging” into Business
Go back to those dreams of working at home, of making your income from your own labor, of avoiding the commute, of spending more time with your family, et cetera. These are sweet dreams and there is no way I want to discourage them. I just want to make you see them realistically.

Spurred by these wonderful fantasies, some people decide on a product to make (boing!), quit their jobs (big boing!), use their credit card to purchase the necessary raw materials and tools (boing!), pay rent on a shop space instead of using their garage (boing!), and begin production.

Then comes reality. As I mentioned in my last article (“It Takes Time”), most home craft businesses don’t start out with a bang (or a boing). They grow slowly, like those oak trees.

The folks who “boing” into business are in for a nasty financial shock if things don’t go exactly as they fantasized.

Startup Costs
This is all fine and good, but what about the nitty-gritty financing of a home craft business? Where do you get the money for that?

Here is an example of do-what-we-say-not-what-we-do: don’t quit your day job. I’ll expand on this in my next article, but for now I’ll simply leave it at this: don’t quit your day job. Trust me on this.

Now for the bright side: getting the tools and raw material for starting a home business may be easier than you think. Most people don’t just pluck a successful home craft business idea out of thin air. They start the business by expanding an existing hobby, talent, skill, or trade. That means that many times they already have the basic tools or materials or knowledge needed to make the product.

What kind of tools do you need? Will you need a sewing machine, a quilting machine, a bandsaw? If you already know how to sew or quilt or do woodworking, chances are you’ve learned your techniques on your own tools and equipment. Now is your chance to utilize these existing tools to start your home craft business.

Or, alternatively, think of a home craft product that is compatible with the tools you already own. Tools such as a sewing machine or a band saw are versatile and easily adaptable to any number of crafts. You might be an expert in making lavender-velvet frammerjammits for all the grandkids, but now you can expand your repertoire by making and selling blue satin nig-nogs as well, which are more marketable and have a wider appeal.

Do you have space on your property to run a business? If you have close neighbors, they may object to loud power tools. (Despite our nearest neighbors being a quarter mile away, we still won’t run our noisiest tools after nine o’clock at night lest we disturb them.) Do you have a shop or a garage or a spare bedroom you can devote to your business? Do you have a computer for billing and internet purposes? Are you prepared for shipping?

Sacrificing for a Reason
Finding the money for a start-up small business is not easy. It’s not supposed to be easy. If it were easy, everyone would be doing it. Like anything worth doing, it usually requires a complete philosophical change from immediate gratification to deferred rewards.

So how do you raise the cash for all the tools and supplies you might need? How about for the advertising, display or show fees, raw materials, etc.? How can you do this without going into debt?

You use the principles of deferred rewards. If you had plans to buy a new (pick one) computer / car / dress / kitchen appliance / vacation trip / restaurant dinner / lawn mower / iPod / whatever, don’t. But do take the amount of money you saved and apply it to the business instead.

Have a favorite vice? Buy cheaper cigarettes (or quit altogether) and apply those funds to the business. Or buy your wine by the box instead of by the bottle and do the same.

But whatever you do, make sure it’s a real savings and not a phony one. You’re not saving money by resisting an impulse purchase. You don’t save $50,000 by not buying the yacht unless the yacht was in your budget to start with.

Rather, your choices should be: The old refrigerator is dying. Do I spend $1200 and get a new fridge with the ice cube maker and water dispenser in the door? Or do I spend $100 at the used appliance store and make do for another couple of years?

Deferred Gratification
Even if you’re as thrifty as can be and apply all your spare money toward funding the business, life can get in the way.

When our daughters were small, we called them Shop One and Shop Two. That’s because our workshop at the time consisted of a 10x10 chicken coop. Much of the time, shop work either spilled over outside (in good weather) or into the house (in bad weather). Or, to put it another way, we frequently lived in our shop.

Whenever we were poised to spend the money and build an actual shop – an honest-to-goodness real shop, with room to move around without bruising an elbow on the bandsaw - another “blessed event” would occur and we had to pay hospital bills instead (that’s why we called the kids Shop One and Shop Two). Fortunately we stopped at two kids and were eventually able to scrape together the money to build a proper shop (20x20 feet, palatial when compared to the chicken coop).

However, the five years we spent working in cramped quarters didn’t stop us from expanding our business. Despite the adverse circumstances, our home craft business was still our primary source of income. It just took creativity and a willingness to accept deferred gratification. We didn’t go into debt and build a shop at a time we couldn’t afford it. We waited. Our girls learned to crawl and then walk among piles of half-finished tankards, and for years I did housework around stacks of clamps, mounds of rubber hosing and rubber bands, gallon jugs of glue, and other tools of our trade.

Shrug. It’s a living.

The Debt Trap
Coupled with the desire to work at home is the frequent wish for instant business success (boing!), an irrational desire to have everything go perfectly from the beginning and to have your business become a rousing success without much effort. Boing.

Yeah, that would be nice. I’d like to win the lottery, too.

However, this little “boing” fantasy is a dangerous trap, because sometimes it translates into a spending spree. You whip out your handy credit card and purchase all the tools, equipment, supplies, and raw materials to make your product. You set your workshop up with Geppetto-like beauty and precision. Then you stand back and think, “Okay, finally! Now I can go into business.”

Bad idea.

Don’t ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever go into debt to start your home business. Aside from the idea that going into debt is wrong to begin with, there is the very real possibility that your business will fail for whatever reason, and then you’re left with the bitter regret of a failed business AND heavy debt to boot.

This is another example of “do what I say, not what I do.” When my husband and I started our home craft business in 1993, that’s exactly what we did: went into debt.

I’ll make some excuses for this, namely that our business was our sole source of income and frequently, in those early days, our modest living expenses outstripped our ability to pay our bills. Sometimes a critical tool (such as the belt sander or planer) would up and die, and we had to order a new one and put it on the credit card because we sure as heck didn’t have the money to pay cash for it. Sometimes a baby was born (remember Shop One and Shop Two?) or a medical accident would happen (like the time Don sliced off the tip of his thumb on the band saw) and we had to pay hospital bills.

Nevertheless, I will never, ever advocate these tactics for the reasons I mentioned above: if the business fails, you’re still saddled with the debt. In our case, it took years to dig ourselves out of the debt-laden hole we dug while getting our business on its feet. Had we properly planned things, the debt (and stress) could have been avoided.

Give yourself time to develop your customer base, increase the speed and efficiency in making your product, and develop your marketing knowledge. Don’t sink yourself into debt getting started because of wishful thinking or misplaced optimism. Obviously you’ll need the raw materials and tools to make the product, but work your way up towards better items as you begin to bring in income.

The Lure of Debt
Recently, while discussing frequent flyer miles with a business friend, I remarked that we seldom fly anywhere, in part because of the cost.

“I charge all my business expenses on my credit card,” he replied. “That way I earn so many frequent flyer miles that I can fly just about anywhere for free.”

“Hmmm,” I observed. “We never use our credit card for business purchases.”

“You don’t?” he asked, genuinely surprised. “Then how do you pay for your raw materials?”

Now it was my turn to be surprised. “With cash, of course,” I replied. “Or rather, with a check.”

“Everything?”

“Everything. We prefer not to establish credit with a company because we don’t want to get socked with a bill thirty days later, after we’ve used up the material. If we pay for everything up front, it’s over and done with.”

This concept seemed to baffle the fellow, though he agreed it was a cleaner way to do business…even if it didn’t earn us frequent flyer miles.

Credit card companies make it so temptingly easy to get into debt. Just think of all the frequent flier miles we could accrue if only we bought our supplies with the credit card!

But unless you are disciplined enough to pay off that credit card in full every month, this is too simple (and deep) a trap to fall into. And frankly, if you’re financially able to pay off the credit card every month, why the heck are you using the credit card to begin with?

If you like the convenience of a credit card (and are good at keeping track of your expenses), try a debit card instead.

For the small home craft business, it is a far safer and more intelligent proposition to keep your business transactions clean and simple. Pay cash.

Reality Check
What are some of the things you’ve heard you’re supposed to do before starting a business?

You MUST have a business plan. Otherwise you will fail.

You MUST incorporate. Otherwise you will fail.

You MUST establish credit. Otherwise you will fail.

You MUST buy only the best (equipment, supplies, etc.) because quality and façade (how others see you) are what’s important.

Must must must. Why must we do things this way?

In part, it’s because most business advice applies to larger enterprises than a home craft business. If you’re renting office space in a fancy high-rise building in the downtown portion of a large city, then it implies that you won’t be churning out hand-made quilts or wooden tankards with the aid of one employee (your spouse).

But millions of businesses have started modestly, with used equipment, borrowed spaces, and yes, sometimes less-than-quality raw materials (I won’t tell if you won’t tell). There is no better and more satisfying thing than to start this way, because then your successes have been earned by the sweat of your brow.

One of the most successful home businesses we know is a couple who started an oil-and-incense business on a card table in their spare bedroom. Fifteen years later they employ five people, rent a large warehouse, and supply stores all over the country.

Dream big, start small. Don’t do the opposite.

Remember: Bill Gates started in his garage. You can too.


Patrice Lewis is co-founder of Don Lewis Designs (www.donlewisdesigns.com).
She and her husband have been in business for fourteen years.
The Lewis’s live on forty acres in north Idaho with their two homeschooled children,
assorted livestock, and a shop which overflows into the house with depressing regularity.

Monday, May 05, 2008

Cheesecake Recipe and Chocolate Eclair Cake

Cheesecake Recipe

From Jane: After seeing today's recipe for strawberries and
cream, I wondered if you had ever heard of No
Bake Cheesecake. It is very simple. You mix one 8
ounce package of cream cheese with 1/3 cup sugar,
2 TBSP of lemon juice and one 8 oz. Cool Whip or
store brand whipped topping. Spoon into a graham
crust and chill. It is delicious and easy. I also
have one for Chocolate Eclair cake also if you
are interested that is also a refrigerator cake.
Let me know if you'd like the recipe. Thanks for
all your kindness. We love you!

Tawra:
I am so honored you want this recipe. It is very rich,
but really yummy. Good for a hot day. Also Easter. I
got it when I lived on the Eastern Shore of Maryland
which is a steamy, humid, southern place.

Chocolate Eclair Cake

1 box graham crackers (you may not use them all)
1 8 ounce Cool Whip, thawed
2 small instant french vanilla pudding
1 can dark chocolate icing
3 cups cold milk

Break enough grahams into squares to cover the bottom
of a 9 x 13 pan. Mix milk and pudding with mixer, then
fold in Cool Whip by hand and blend well. Spoon 1/2 of
mixture on top of crackers. Lay another layer of
crackers on top. Spoon rest of pudding mixture on top,
spreading out to cover crackers. Then one more layer
of crackers. Take off foil seal from icing, replace
lid and heat one minute on high in microwave. Pour
over last cracker layer and spread to cover with
spatula if needed. Cover with plastic wrap and chill
several hours or over night. Oh man! You will think
you died and went to heaven.

Of course, I guess this of no use to someone on a
strict diet. Oh well.

Love, Jane

Words of Wisdom

I'm sitting here totally brain dead and in a CFS fog this morning. I'm not sure I could tell anyone the name of my children let alone how to save on groceries but as I am sitting here with my eyes glazed over I did manage to focus on a little saying that I have on my desk that I really like and would like to share it with you. You can apply these words to any area of your life, whether it is dealing with your money, cooking for your family, cleaning your home or on your job. I hope you like them.

Wisdom is knowing what to do next.
Skill is knowing how to do it.
Virtue is doing it.

It's amazing how all three of these work together. Anyone of these alone won't work. You have to have all three or to be working on acquiring all three. It's kind of like having a nice new car. If that car doesn't have wheels and keys, it isn't going to be of much use to you. The same goes for wisdom, without skill and virtue it is of no use. Just something to think about.

Have a good day! :) :) Jill

Drinking Water Savings

I just read your email today about drinking water
instead of juice and milk...Good for you!

I wanted to pass on a help that we used when
moving to DC and the water was horrible here.
Faced with the option of buying bottled water my
mother-in-law wisely suggested adding a few bits
of cut up fruit. I took her suggestion with
blueberries, strawberries, watermelon,
lemon ...well any fruit that is on sale that week
we use.

Our family is back on track with water now with a
little flavor to cover up the chemical taste
(plus the kids love putting there "own" fruit in)
I thought that maybe someone might use this to
wean there family off of juice. A warning...it
doesn't taste like juice but gives water a
flavor. All in all, it is still much cheaper to
do this than juice, and healthier.

Thanks for your wise advice!
Autumn

Note from Tawra: When we lived in Texas and Northeaster Kansas we had HORRID water. It was so bad that we couldn't even cook with it. What we did was when Mike went to work each day he took one or two gallons and filled them up with the tap water that tasted good. That way we didn't have to buy expensive drinking water.

Friday, May 02, 2008

My grandson (Tawra's 4 yr. old David) came to visit me today. I saw once again how often we get the wrong ideas about things, especially when it comes to the needs and wants of our children.

When my first grandchild was born my first thought was to go buy every toy known to man to give him. I'm allowed to do that because it is in the job description of a grandma but then my common sense kicked in and reality hit. I knew I couldn't afford it .

I felt like the little drummer boy in the Christmas song who only had his music to give to the Christ child. I had mostly my love and my time to give my grandkids unlike the their other grandparents and family members who could afford to give them all the "cool" toys.

I now know how foolish I was those many years ago to think and feel that way and was reminded of it once again today. I opened my kitchen utensil drawer and David's eyes about popped out with excitement. He didn't know where to start; the funnel, the sieve, or that weird plastic spiny thing! We ended up playing with the turkey baster. I filled a plastic bowl with water and to make it more interesting I added red food coloring to the water. We spent 30 minutes squeezing water in and out of the baster.

We got out the Chinese checkers game and even though we don't know how to play it yet we had more fun putting all the marbles in designs on the board and then to top it all off we went to "Nan's" bank, got a free bag of popcorn (our favorite), a balloon and a red sucker. Could any little man have had a better day then that? I don't think so.

We as parents and grandparents alike worry about not being able to give our children or grandchildren "everything". At times we get so busy and focused on trying to do that that we don't have the strength left to give them the main things they want and need, our time and love and very simple things.

To a child everything is new and exciting so we need to remember that it doesn't take much to make them happy. Just you and them and a turkey baster! :) :) Jill

Thursday, May 01, 2008

To add to my daughters comments about these "hard economic" times, I have heard it said so much that I told Tawra the other day I had decided that I am going to require people to watch 2 hours of a home shopping network before they say those words.

I am shocked at the 100's of thousands of dollars worth of things that are sold just within a couple of hours and yet everyone keeps saying times are hard. The other night they were selling 3 loaf pans half full of mac and cheese for a total (with S&H) of $40. They sold out of it so fast they had to take advanced orders for more!

I love to people watch and every time I go to Wal Mart or the grocery store I peek at what they have in their cart. I can say I have as of yet seen one person with only essential items. If things are that hard what is every one doing with candy bars, DVD's, pop, toys, etc. in their baskets?

I agree with what one our readers comments that the problem is that everyone has just charged up their credit cards so bad that now when there is a price raise at all it can be enough to throw people over the edge.

I remember years ago when the price of gas double in one week and shortly after bread prices double and hamburger prices jumped way up. People weren't happy about it but it was no big deal why because that was before everyone was living on credit cards.

I find it very interesting that I who am on a very fixed income (as of yet I haven't received an income from the book) I am living on only $50 more a month then I was 10 years ago, haven't really noticed much change in the way I spend my money.

I still use my car as usual, buy the same groceries etc. I also so have noticed that those with no credit card debt don't seem to be hollering near as much as others. I wonder why? Is it because of their attitude towards money, the fact they have their money under control enough that that can ride out prices changes? It's something to think about.

Jill

Newsletter 5-1

Dear Readers,

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer our survey about what's on your mind. You guys are great! I was so excited to hear your success stories and amazed and pleased to read that most of you are still plowing along in spite of some unbelievable odds. God never intended us to be perfect in every thing but just with quiet strength, to persevere and so many of you are faithfully doing just that. My hat goes off to you!!!!

A lot of you mentioned what an encouragement we are to you but I don't know if you will every fully understand how much your words of kindness mean to us and what an encouragement you all are to us. As you may well understand, sometimes words can't always express the heartfelt thankfulness that we feel and this is one of those times.

All I can say is thank you so much for your support. Armed with the answers from you and your suggestions, we will try to answer as many of your questions that we can along with more ideas and tips on saving money, organizing your homes etc.

One last thing. As I was reading through your answers (yes I read all of them) about half way through I started to become overwhelmed. There were so many of you dealing with frustration, fear, confusion and just plain exhaustion in your lives. I have been exactly where you are at and my heart went out to you. I understand how hard it is to have to wait for an answer to your question, even waiting an hour can seen like an eternity let alone to have to wait weeks for me to get something written (I can only write things so fast).

I just want you to know I stopped at that moment and did the only thing (but probably the most important thing) I could for now and that was to pray that God will help each and every one of you where you are at right now. I tell you this because there have been times when things have been so bad but just to know that there was someone who was really praying for me made all the difference in the world and helped me to carry on.

I don't mean the kind of praying where someone does the "automatic" response of "I'll be praying for you" either, but where they sincerely care and really are praying. We glibly say those words so often without really meaning it (hmmm??? I wonder it that falls into the category of vain repetition?? just a thought) and most of the time those that are hurting and in need of prayer can see right through those vain words. I guess what I'm trying to say in a very round about way is I really, sincerely laid you at God's feet asking Him to help and bless each one of you.

Thank you again for your great support and we will do our best to get the answers to as many of your questions as possible!

May your homes always be seasoned with love,

-Jill



Get today's tips and recipes, including a Meatloaf Menu, Strawberries Over Cream and more here!

Baking soda my new love

I can't believe the tip from Liz. I was frantically cleaning Tawra's house yesterday before the reporters came and couldn't get these red and black marks off her fridge.

The whole time I' m taking the man's name in vain who came up with the idea of finger proof fridges and instead put texture on the outside that is even harder to clean! Dumb idea.

Anyway God showed me a means of escape before I sinned more by thinking more bad thoughts about the poor man and I remembered baking soda and used it on the fridge. It worked great so I was tickled to get Liz's tip today and will try it on my tub next.
Jill

Cleaning Tip

From: Liz
I have a suggestion about the cleaning textured
shower floor. I use baking soda and a plastic
mesh scrubber.

We have very hard water and it gets very scummy.
I tried everything and this works.

reader wedding tips

While I don't have an order or question, I would
like to offer one of my ideas for
your "Inexpensive Weddings" section. I don't see
a place on your site for me to write in, and, I
don't know anything about "blogging". But,
here's my suggestion anyway:

For the "Inexpensive Weddings" section, I would
like to suggest to the readers that they can use
those square, plastic, see-through boxes that the
Roma Tomatoes come in as boxes for the groom's
boutinierre or bride's maids wristlets. That
idea came to me as I was trying to make space in
my fridge by putting the last two tomatoes in the
container that was full. Hope your loyal readers
(and I am DEFINITELY one of them!) can use this
bit of frugality from my own archives! Thanks!

Marcia W.


Hello! I saw on Oprah, years ago, a great way to save on a wedding cake is to decorate styrofoam pieces and have just the couples cake real (the one they cut) and then in the back kitchen have pre-cut pieces of cake from a local bakery or grocery store.

For our wedding we asked for our cake to be a gift instead of getting money, etc. My grandparents were very happy with that idea and that was there gift to us.

We also asked for Home Depot cards. We're not into the frilly things like crystal, china, gravy boats, etc. All the cards we received helped us redecorate our living room from dark panelled 70s blah into what we call a Moose Lodge (hardwood floors and matching panelling...all of which was installed by my hubby). I married TIM THE TOOL MAN TAYLOR....lol

Michelle




I enjoyed reading about Weddings on a Dime, and
wanted to share money-savings from my own
wedding.

* I bought my Scott McClintock dress from an
outlet for $16.32! Interestingly enough, I just
recently sold it on a used wedding dress site,
so the dress continues to be a blessing.
www.preownedweddingdresses.com; also
www.woreitonce.com are good sites.
* I had my bridesmaids wear the little black
dresses that were already in their closet (well,
one person had to borrow a dress), so no expense
to them for dress or shoes.
* We had a cake-and-punch reception, featuring a
coffee cart the church already had on-site.
* The wedding cake was from the local grocery
store - inexpensive and delicious - even a year
later!
* A friend prepared all of the flowers to
decorate the church and reception.
* Other friends created beautiful floral
arrangements for the church, using flowers and
plants that were growing in their gardens.
* A pastor friend married us and declined the
honorarium.
* Another friend is a wedding coordinator and
helped with the ceremony proceedings.
* We wanted to marry in a church, but wouldn't
pay the $1,200 fee usually charged to non-
members (our own church had no facility for
weddings). We finally found a beautiful church
that only charged $150, which included the
wedding coordinator, pianist, and a video! I
didn't even know about the church until I drove
by it, and in my desperate hunt, was leaving no
stone unturned. So I called, with great results!
* We used a wholesale flower warehouse to
prepare the bouquets & boutonnieres. The
bridesmaids carried only about three flowers
each.

I did actually have a "catered" rehearsal dinner
(trays from the local Chinese take-out) as well
as a "luncheon" for family and close friends
following the reception, at a restaurant. But I
picked a restaurant with very reasonable banquet
prices. My photographer was well under the
going rate. I did lots and lots of shopping
around so that I received maximum impact and
service for the best price. The wedding cost
more than $1500, but I am proud of what we
accomplished.

Best wishes!
Heidi Fritz
Name: Joy Bice
EMail: joybice@comcast.net
Question: Tawra & Jill,

Thanks for the wedding tips. I don't know if you
are still taking more tips from readers but I have
a few.

My daughters are teenagers and we have attended
many weddings in their lifetime. I began when
they were younger pointing out the simple and less
inexpensive ideas from other weddings. I have
been coaching them now for years on the beauty of
a simple wedding. I'm hoping that when the time
comes for them to get married they will already be
conditioned to think that way.

One idea we heard was to have an evening wedding.
A candlelight wedding could be very romantic and
the reception would just be deserts.

Another idea I have seen done is to have each
bridesmaid choose their own dress. For example,
the last wedding we attended had the bridesmaids
in black dresses. They were told what length to
choose but beyond that they were free to buy what
they would like and could wear after the wedding.
It not only looked beautiful but it was neat to
see the individual styles pulled together by
jewelery and flowers. The men in this wedding wore
black suits, and were given matching ties. They
were free to either buy a suit or borrow one or
use one they already owned.


Tawra,
Fireyourweddingplanner.com is a FABULOUS site to help brides save money as well! My wedding was cancelled (it's okay, it was a good thing) but I was already at a savings of $2500! Just to let the other brides to be know!
Susan F.
Bellingham, WA

MICROWAVE RHUBARB CRISP

This sounds great! When I get the microwave fixed or a new one I'm going to try it.
Tawra

I wanted to pass on a quick, easy & inexpensive
dessert recipe that a dear friend gave me years
ago and my family loves it! It uses rhubarb
which we have growing in our garden and I always
chop & freeze to use all winter long. Since the
rhubarb harvest is not too far away,I hope you &
your readers enjoy it!

MICROWAVE RHUBARB CRISP

Step 1:
4 cups chopped rhubarb
1 cup sugar
1/4 cup flour
1 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 cup water

Mix well, put in square 8x8 or 9x9 glass baking
dish. Cover with plastic wrap. Microwave on
high for 5 minutes.

Step 2:
Mix: 1 cup flour
1 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 cup oatmeal (instant or old fashioned)
Cut in 1/2 cup butter until crumbly. Pour over
rhubarb mixture and microwave, uncovered, 10
minutes or until bubbly.

When I'm using frozen rhubarb, I thaw it but I
don't drain the liquid. I either reduce the
water in step one to 1/4 cup or I increase the
oatmeal in step two to 3/4 cup. Enjoy!

Have a Christ filled day! ~~Stacey in Minnesota

There are no "hard economic times"

For the last year or so everyone has been talking about "these hard economic times" and honestly I think it's just a bunch of hot air from people who got in over their heads and don't want to pay their debts now.

I never did think we were having one. If times were so bad then why is the Applebee's parking lot in town full every lunch and dinner. Why is it 3,000 $1,000 dolls sold out in 1 minute on QVC, why are grocery baskets full of junk food, sodas and bottled water?

One of my pet peeves it the news making thing out to be worse than they really are. Well, yesterday Mike was watching the news and they said how the economy had gone up the last 2 quarters. They measure a recession by a drop for 4 quarters in a row. It only went down for 2 and then up for two. They then went on to say that "maybe we need to redefine the term reason because people are sure feeling it". Augh!!!!

People are having problems because they don't want to give up the fun stuff to pay for necessary items. They want to keep their "standard of living" which is some of the highest in the world but they don't want to have to actually pay for it or heaven forbid we work first, save up the money to pay for it and then buy it debt free.

Now, before I get my inbox full of email, yes, I know there are some people out there who have lost jobs and are really hurting but I'm not talking about folks who are careful and are using their money wisely.

Mike and I don't worry about a rescission. Why? Because we are getting our ducks in a row now so that if there is a real problem some day then we can make it through.

We aren't even close to living like they had to in the depression so you need to stop acting like we are and take responsibility for your actions and pay your bills! It's not that bad!

Ok, I'm stepping down off the soapbox now. :-)

Tawra
I hope you all bear with me this is only the second time I have ever posted anything and I'm not sure of what I'm doing so please be patient. First let me say what a sweet daughter I have for saying all those kind words about my organizing skills that makes up for all those years I spent tearing out my hair while you threw your unmentionables from one end of the house to the other. :):) Don't you know if it wasn't for you and your brother I wouldn't be so skilled in art of decluttering a room. :) :) Seriously though for you young moms out there don't be too hard on yourselves. I remember so well one day long, long ago in a desolate land (Kansas) sitting and sobbing my heart out to my husband on why couldn't I keep my house as clean as great grandma's. He did the very proper husbandly thing and hugged me and kissed me and patiently explained that great grandma didn't have a sick baby, wild toddler(Tawra) and a house with no walls that was being remodeled. I felt so much better and started wiping up my tears with a very soggy Kleenex as my husband went to the fridge to get something to drink. He then ran his finger along the top of the fridge and very seriously asked if I knew it was really dirty up there? He took one look at my face and realized what he had said, I don't think I have ever seen a man grovel at his wife's feet the way he did. Of course I did the proper thing that any wife should do and never let him live it down. :) :) :)

Hope you all have a super super day today. Jill

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

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this is jill testing 123 is anyone out there?

Good Housekeeping is Genetic

Well, I must admit we are totally worn out from the Mother's Day sale. It's just too much for me to do so I think we need to hire someone for these types of sales next time.

As I'm sitting here numb, looking at a dusty house that needs cleaning I have determined that a good housekeeper is something that genetic. :-)

My mom is the ultimate in good organizing and housekeeping. Her house is always picked up and whenever someone comes over she gets us and gets you a drink and a small snack or will fix you a cup of tea.

Me- the thought of organzing starts sending me into an anxiety attack and that's not an exageration. I have been working on my garage for 3 weeks now and it's no where close to being doing. Now that I've been working on it so long I don't even want to keep trying. (Yes, I tried the 15 minutes a day thing)
When people come over, I say "if you want something to drink you know where the cups are." :-)

Well, the the other day my daughter decided to clean her room and boy did she clean it! She dumped about 99% of the stuff she had. Then on weekends or when the kids are out of school I always try to have a bowl of snacks for them out for the day so they know what they can have.
Well, when they were home I was in getting ready and Elly came in and said "mom, I hope you don't mind but I used a lot of baggies to get our snack bowl together". Did I mind? No way!

So I think she gets it from mom because she sure doesn't get it from me! LOL I KNOW it's genetic.

To my defense, I don't really mind cleaning when I'm feeling well. I think most of my problem is just not feeling good so I get overwhelmed.

Tawra

P.S. Just as I was getting ready to post this the local TV station wants to come over and do an piece on us in 2 hours! Augh! I guess that's motivation right there. LOL