Books for Sale

I have some personal books that are for sale and don’t want to mess with e-bay.

The price is $5 each including shipping and I will send you an invoice via paypal for them.

Becoming a Vessel God Can Use- Bible study by Donna Partow

Boundaries Participant’s Guide -Bible study workbook NOT the book- by Cloud and Townsend

Celebrate Simply- 2 copies Nancy Twigg

SOLD-Frozen Assets- Deborah Taylor-Hough

SOLD- Passionate Housewives Desperate for God- Chancey and McDonald

SOLD-Home is where the mom is- Shelly Burke

SOLD-The Penny - Joyce Meyer- 2 copies

Email me if you want any of the them.
Tawra editor@livingonadime.com

10 Myths of Breastfeeding.

Disclaimer: Do not read this is you love breastfeeding! Some of us have no fond memories of it so don’t say I didn’t warn you!

I had Michelle from on-the-edge-mom.com email me the other day. After checking out her blog I found this most hilarious story on the 10 Myths of Breastfeeding.

I have to say I laughed my head off! I LOVED IT. After breast-feeding or attempting to breastfeed 3 kids I have yet to see the wonderful bliss some women have doing this.

Baby #1- Never stopped eating and I was always squirting milk everywhere! It got to the point where I had to wear diapers in my bra to keep the milk under control.

Baby #2- Wouldn’t stop eating either but she proceeded to add hurling up her food and barfing EVERY TIME she ate. She had pyloric stenosis so she was literally starving because her stomach wouldn’t let the food through and then she would throw it up, some times across the room! When I called the doc for the 5th time in 3 days and the nurse said “well, some times babies spit up but first time moms always think it worse than it is” I wanted to go down and choke the daylights out of her! (the nurse not the baby)

Baby #3- never stopped eating either but then decided to continually cry 24/7. Found out he was allergic to milk and eggs later but by that point I just wanted to die from the exhaustion of moving, 3 kids 5 and under, hubby’s job problems and a chronic illnesses.

If we have any more kids I will give another shot, but so far the experience has been anything but pleasant for me. You can tell it must have traumatized me if 4 years later I’m still having flashbacks! LOL

anyway, if your like me and breastfeeding was anything but fun you will get a good laugh out of it.

Tawra

P.S. Please do not email me about the vitures of breast-feeding, I already know them all and all the help you can get from LLL and all that good stuff. I am NOT saying breastfeeding is bad. So don’t email me about that either!
This is just meant to give some women a good laugh and not feel guilty that it’s not for everyone.

More Getting ogranized

HI Tawra–

I really enjoyed your articles on saving money by NOT eating out–we just don’t realize how much money is spent doing that!

I always really enjoy reading your blog–both for the helpful hints and to catch up on what your family is doing.

Your blog posts got me thinking–please consider this for publication in your blog.

My family was all gone this last week, and I used the time to do some deep cleaning. I was amazed by the results and the impact messy closets had/have on my wallet, as well as my time and my mental health.

I cleaned closets/cabinets in our laundry room, master bathroom, and the linen closet and food pantry/closet.

In each closet I found items (medications, batteries, cleaning products) that I’d purchased duplicates of in the last year or so(it’s probably been 18 months or so since the last deep cleaning) because I couldn’t find that item when I needed it because of the disorder. Fortunately, none of them expired and had to be tossed, so now I just know I have plenty of AA batteries and night-time cold medicine. I do know, however, that there were times in the past that I’d have rather had the extra money than the extra supplies!

I DID find some medications that were very outdated and threw them away. This is a safety issue as well as a money issue; old medications can either be ineffective or act in ways we don’t expect. Bu having my medications organized I know I have a good selection on hand, and will be able to tell at a glance what we need and not buy too much.

I think we all have bottles of shampoo, hairspray, or lotion that we didn’t like or were allergic to, so only used a tiny bit of. I sorted mine out, along with make-up that I can’t use for some reason (wrong color, allergy, etc.). I’ll take these things to one of the woman’s shelters in our nearby town. I’ve done it before and they’re very thankful! (of course I don’t take mascara or anything that could potentially spread anything.) Sorting out many bottles made me realize that I can do without many of the things I think I “need” . . . but also makes me feel greatful that I can “give” to someone who might have had to leave her home with nothing.

I reorganized the pantry as I straightened it. I put like items together–for example, tomato sauce next to the pasta, all breakfast items on one shelf, side dishes (mashed potatoes, rice, canned fruits and veggies), baking supplies, and so on. (I rarely bake . . . but had SEVEN full and partially full bags of powdered sugar on hand . . . ) This makes it easy to put meal plans together, and a cinch to quickly see what we’re low on.

As well as helping my wallet, the organization helps my mental health! It’s GREAT to open the doors to these closets and not have to worry about things falling out, or digging behind/under/around other things to find what I’m looking for. It’s also really nice to open the doors and see the order!

You don’t have to clean all of your cabinets or drawers or closets at once! Clean according to the time you have–even just doing one shelf, or organizing the cans of fruit or boxes of cereal, will give you a sense of accomplishment.

Shelly Burke, RN, is the author of several books, including Home is Where the Mom Is; A Christian Mom’s Guide to Caring for Herself, Her Family, and Her Home, and What Should I Say? The Right (and Wrong!) Words and Deeds for Life’s Sticky, Tricky, Uncomfortable Situations. To order, or read an excerpt, go to www.shellyburke.net.

Small Bathrooms

10 Ways to Make One
Small Bathroom Work
by Jill Cooper

Remodeling or adding a bathroom can be a major expense. I remember when 2 bathrooms was considered a luxury and now a bathroom for every person is thought to be a necessity. If you still happen to be in the dark ages like me and have only 1 bathroom, here are a few suggestions to help you make 1 bathroom work.

Place a vanity or table with a mirror in the bedrooms, especially the master bedroom and girls’ rooms. All hair curling and blow drying can be done in the bedrooms. This can free up a lot of bathroom time.

My brother had 3 daughters so, needless to say, bathroom time could be a problem. Instead of the expense of adding a whole bathroom he had just a sink put in one of the bedrooms to help free up the bathrooms.

Stagger shower times. If you have 4 people all trying to take showers in the morning, it’s just not going to work, so have different family members take showers at different times. For example:

Young children could take their baths at night.

Mom could take a soothing bath in the evening instead of a hurried shower in the morning.

Some family members can take their showers on Monday and others on Tuesday taking turns. Before you have a heart attack about not showering every day, remember that most dermatologists will tell you that taking a shower every day is not good for you.

Have everyone get dressed in their bedrooms and not the bathroom. Use a bathrobe to walk to the bathroom. Use the shower, put on your robe and go back to the bedroom to dress.

Limit shower times or the amount of time each person is allowed to use the bathroom in the morning when everyone needs the bathroom and things are especially hectic. Save those long soothing hot showers and baths for less hectic times of day.

If you must put your makeup on in the bathroom when others need it, learn to put it on in 5 minutes or less.

Do you have 5 people in your family and only one towel rod in the bathroom? Don’t panic. Hang an attractive rod behind the door in each person’s bedroom. When they are done with their showers, they can carry their damp towels with them to their rooms to hang them up. When it’s shower time again, they can grab the towels after they slip on their bathrobes and head for the bathroom. When the towels are dry, they can toss them in the hamper.

If your bathroom is short on storage, keep extra supplies in another room. (Things like toilet paper, shampoos, and even your towels and washrags can be stored there if you’re desperate). It is best if the room or closet where you store extras is close to the bathroom. I recommend keeping a couple of extra rolls of toilet paper in the bathroom, but not 12 rolls.

Keep your medicines in the kitchen. Most of us take them into the kitchen anyway. You can even keep your first aid kit in the kitchen. Think about it — half the time when you get burned, it happens in the kitchen. When someone gets cut, they are very rarely in the bathroom when it happens. In our house, first aid moments usually happen at meal time when I’m trying to get dinner ready, so why go all the way into the bathroom when you are already in the kitchen?

Buy a make up organizer or use a decorative box for your make up and keep it on the back of the toilet. You could also get a organizer that hangs on the back of the door to hold all kinds of things. Buy a shower curtain with pockets or put shelves in your shower.

Some of these suggestions may take time to get used to, but with a little practice, like many other things, they can become easy habits.

cooments from readers:

From: Sandra
about many people using the same bathroom and short showers…keeps the humidity down too. After a long leisurely shower the wallpaper/paint just about comes off…imagine 4 long showers in a row?? Pity the 4th person in the bathroom… Love your emails and blog…u keep me on track.

From: Jewel
I’d just like to add that the sink in the bedroom is an excellent idea. I don’t know why more people don’t think of it. Many years ago when our children, two boys and a girl, were young we put a 3 foot vanity with cultured marble all in one sink top in our daughter’s room. In fact, this is something we had to special order at that time. This room is now used as a guest room. Ceramic floor tile was installed in front of the vanity, and the remainder of the room is carpeted. The upstairs small bath includes a vanity with a sink on one wall and a vanity with no sink but a mirror above it to accommodate our two sons. This arrangement saved many arguments among the kids. The daughter had her own domain so to speak, and the boys are close enough together in age that they had no problem sharing the bathroom. Two sinks could have been put in, but we opted for one because of space.

Even though I am retired and have no family at home, I really enjoy your newsletter.

From DD:
I always tried to keep a dresser in the bathroom, if possible, holds lots of bathroom items and looks nice and doesn’t take up alot of room….dd

What great ideas! Our family lived with a single bathroom for 13 years with 4 children–potty training, stomach bugs and all. I would add that in the event of the unpleasant (but inevitable) stomach bug, a deep bowl with a couple of paper towels in the bottom is just fine for throwing up…hospitals use emesis basins all the time. Just flush it down the toilet and wipe clean with Lysol!
Melanie from Alabama

Cheaper Glasses

BJ and Elly had to get glasses last week and I would love a new pair. Here a site that might help if you are like us and don’t have insurance. Tawra

http://www.getbetterglasses.com/

I need some readers help, please.

Forgive the short blogging today. Elly is sick again with a stomach and headache. She has been doing this for two months now so I have to run to the doctor, again.

I have a couple of requests.

Update: We have enough takers on the e-books. Thanks everyone! Tawra
1st- I have 3 new e-books coming out. I need about 10 people to read them, give me their two cents and look for any remaining errors. We have a new Menus e-book, How to get 0% balances on your credit cards and a Valentine’s e-book. If this is something you would be interested in please email and I will send them to you. They are all under 60 pages and you could get them free and be the first to review them!

2nd- If any of you have church at home (you worship as a family in your home on Sunday instead of going to a formal church.) would you please email me? We are considering this and would like some input.

Thanks everyone!

Tawra

editor@livingonadime.com

Working on the budget

We have had several requests for our 2008 budget. I just spent a few hours this weekend entering in everything we spent this year. It will take me a little bit to get the new budget on-line but I am working it.

Tawra

Now we have a physco dog.

I took Buster to the vet on Friday because he is still scratching. They wanted to observe him so I left him for 6 hours.

Of course he was so scared he didn’t scratch once. They dipped him in a sulfur dip and put a flea spray on him (even though there isn’t flea to be found!). Then they put him on special dog allergy food. $130 total! Augh.

Well, now all the sudden he is having these sort of panic attacks. He started Sat. morning and has had 2-4 a day since then. He will go around panting really hard, pacing, staying right next to us, has his tail between his legs. It is so weird! He will do this for an hour or two and then stop.

I have no idea what in the world started causing this but now I’m having horrible flash backs!

We rescued another dog about 10 years ago and he was NUTS! After a year of taking him to the dogie psychiatrist at the university and spending $1000 on him we finally had to put him to sleep. He had the best personality most of the time but when ever the sun would go down he would just start going crazy! We named him Ed and then started calling him Crazy Eddie.

Now I don’t know what to do with Buster. Of course after all of that and he is still scratching! Augh!

Tawra

Breakfast recipes and tips.

One of the ultimate pleasures in comfort foods is to have breakfast foods for supper on a cold winters night. Besides that it’s quick and easy!

Everyone loves waffles. If you are making your own don’t forget to sprinkle with crumbled bacon for the adults before you cook them or chocolate chips (use some of that leftover chocolate from Christmas) for the kids or chopped fruit for everyone.

For extra fluffy waffles, separate the yolk and the white. Add the yolk to the batter and beat the white in a separate bowl. Then fold into the batter.

Another way to get extra fluffy pancakes or waffles is to substitute part of the liquid with club soda.

Don’t forget to freeze the extras and/or make extras while you have everything out, to freeze. Then you have something quick and easy to pop in the toaster for those hurried mornings or evenings.

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Breakfast Menu #1
(for those of you not on a diet)

Waffles*
Special Honey Syrup*
Bacon or Sausage
Grapefruit halves or orange slices
Coffee or Tea

*Waffles

2 eggs
2 cups flour or wheat flour
2 Tbsp. sugar
1/2 cup vegetable oil, margarine or butter, melted
4 tsp. baking powder
1/4 tsp. salt
1 2/3 cups milk

Heat waffle iron. Beat eggs in a medium bowl until fluffy. Beat in remaining ingredients just until smooth. Do not over mix. Pour batter onto center of hot waffle iron. Bake 5 minutes or until steaming stops. Remove carefully. Makes twelve 4 inch waffles.

I got the recipe for this syrup from my sister-in-law Kathleen. It is not for the faint of heart or for those on a diet but it is to die for. I usually set this out on the table when I first start dinner so it will be ready by the time everything else is done. You can also make it the day before. It’s like pouring melted caramels on your waffles.

*Special Honey Syrup

1 cup sugar
1 cup light corn syrup
1 cup heavy cream

Place ingredients in a medium sauce pan, bring to a boil, lower heat and simmer for 30 minutes or more until caramel colored. Watch it because it boils over very easily.

Breakfast Menu #2
(for those of you watching your waist line, sort of)

Scrambled eggs
Bacon or sausage
Grapefruit halves or orange slices
English Muffin
Coffee or tea

This next recipe is another good recipe for breakfast, brunch or dinner. You can substitute leftover dry bread for the French bread if you like.

Keep a bag in the freezer and when you have one or two pieces of dry bread, toss them in. When you have enough make something like this recipe or stuffing.

Baked French Toast

1 loaf Texas Toast or French Bread, broken into cubes
6 eggs
1 1/2 cups milk
1 1/2 cups half and half
1 tsp. vanilla
1/4 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 cup (1 stick) margarine
1 cup brown sugar
2 Tbsp. dark Karo syrup
1 cup walnuts

Place bread into a 9×13 pan. Beat eggs and add next four ingredients. Pour over bread. Refrigerate overnight. Before baking, mix margarine, sugar, syrup, and nuts. Melt and pour over bread. Bake at 350° for 45 minutes. Do Not over bake.

In memory of the white car.

Well, the white car is no longer with us, thank goodness!

We sold it for $500 yesterday. Yeah!!

It’s going to be great because now we can use the money to pay for the $1,000 in repairs we had to pay this week for the other 2 cars or maybe we can use it to pay part of the $800 propane bill we will have Monday. :-)

We got hit hard this week but fortunately we have most of the money we need for all of it. We put it on our credit card (yes, we pay it off each month) so we will get reward points too!

Tawra